Ok i've had a lot of people asking me how to install that calendar I installed over to my right bar. It is quite easy. It is made by another Blog user and its called Bloglender. You can go here to download it
BlogLendar at Just Another Wiki
Once you extract the downloaded file, have a look at install.txt. It has a lot of information about properly installing bloglender. If you still cannot figure it out drop me an EMAIL please, and I will reply to it with all the details and such. Enjoy!